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Deck1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/house-addition-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>House Addition 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/home-addition-roof-begins-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Home Addition - Roof Begins #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/home-addition-drywall-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Home Addition - Drywall #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/home-addition-basement-walls-and-beams-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Home Addition - basement walls and beams #2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-04-20T12:46:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2018/02/06/you-adopted-black-ones/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/happy-new-year-2018.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Happy New Year 2018</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-02-27T13:22:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2016/07/24/the-little-black-boy-came/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame18.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame18</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame17</image:title><image:caption>A family movie night</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame16</image:title><image:caption>Everyone to court for Nolan's adoption finalization</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame15.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame15</image:title><image:caption>A very special visit with a very special Santa</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame14.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame14</image:title><image:caption>His first birthday with his new family</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame13</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame12.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame12</image:title><image:caption>Such a perfect fit</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame11</image:title><image:caption>Trusting his daddy enough now to let him toss him into the air.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame10.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame10</image:title><image:caption>Nolan was so proud when he finally learned enough self-control to push a kid-sized grocery cart through the store with me.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theblackboycame9.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TheBlackBoyCame9</image:title><image:caption>Nolan paper dolls made for him by one of his brothers. (I LOVE these!)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2023-02-27T13:02:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2022/11/14/wisdom-do-i-want-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/kathy-age-28-new-orleans-la.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Kathy - age 28 New Orleans, LA</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-11-16T11:46:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2022/10/07/dark-night-of-the-soul/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/page-from-knowing-god.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Page from Knowing God</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/knowing-god-book.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Knowing God Book</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2022-10-11T12:06:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2022/01/30/quilts-legacies-rambling-thoughts/</loc><lastmod>2022-01-30T23:34:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2021/12/14/wait-is-this-the-right-future/</loc><lastmod>2021-12-15T13:50:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2021/12/11/a-sweet-story/</loc><lastmod>2021-12-16T13:47:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2021/11/10/im-right-here-behind-the-garden-hoses/</loc><lastmod>2021-11-14T15:26:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/10/24/responding-to-the-injustices-of-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/roslyn-with-jaden-and-lilyan-spring-15.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Roslyn with Jaden and Lilyan - Spring '15</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2021-10-25T01:12:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2018/06/14/beautiful-fresh-starts-or-brain-damage/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/teddy-to-the-vet.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Teddy to the Vet</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/precious-cousins.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Precious Cousins</image:title><image:caption>True love already</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/playing-in-the-pool-with-mommy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Playing in the pool with Mommy</image:title><image:caption>Playing with Mommy in the pool</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/her-own-bed.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Her Own Bed!</image:title><image:caption>Good morning! So proud of herself! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/celebratory-dinner-out.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Celebratory Dinner Out</image:title><image:caption>Big family celebratory dinner</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/jhannel-update-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jhannel Update #2</image:title><image:caption>Doing some preschool activities in our classroom</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/jhannels-prize-box.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jhannel's Prize Box</image:title><image:caption>Jhannel's prize box - part of our plan for helping her learn to sleep in her own bed</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/jhannel-update-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jhannel Update #5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/buddies-in-a-box.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Buddies in a Box</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/jhannel-and-godfrey.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jhannel and Godfrey</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2021-10-21T11:16:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2021/03/27/following-the-curve/</loc><lastmod>2021-10-21T11:14:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/03/12/a-change-of-plan/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/erins-29th-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin's 29th #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/erins-27th-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin's 27th #3</image:title><image:caption>Erin with her dearly-loved companion, Teddy</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/teddy-and-erin-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Teddy and Erin #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/ryan-38-erin-reading-to-him.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ryan 38 - Erin Reading To Him</image:title><image:caption>Erin, about 7 years old, trying to read to her  younger brother</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/josiah-erin2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Josiah-Erin2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/erinatbanquet.jpg</image:loc><image:title>erinatbanquet</image:title><image:caption>Performing a song in sign language for the God she loves</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/erin.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin</image:title><image:caption>As a bridesmaid in her sister's Renaissance-style wedding</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/erin-on-doughboy-aug-2008.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin on DoughBoy  Aug. 2008</image:title><image:caption>Learning to ride Doughboy, one of her favorite horses at the stable where she took therapeutic riding lessons</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/erin-and-gabriela-10-09.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin and Gabriela 10-09</image:title><image:caption>With her niece</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/2013-card-from-erin.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2013 Card from Erin</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2021-08-21T03:58:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/11/18/fighting-for-and-against-a-champion/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/k-and-carlin-1-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>K-and-Carlin-1-05</image:title><image:caption>Holding a brand new sister - Carlin's capacity to love has always been so clearly seen in her care and concern toward her baby sister, Kathryn</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlinforthankyou.jpg</image:loc><image:title>CarlinForThankyou</image:title><image:caption>Sometimes, the peace is within reach - this story isn't finished yet</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlins-haircut-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin's Haircut #1</image:title><image:caption>One day at a time . . . </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlin-park-5-04jpg.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin-park-5-04jpg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlin-12-03cute.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin-12.03cute</image:title><image:caption>So precious</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlin-in-romania-12.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Another hero who fought for Carlin and many other orphans in Romania</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlin-in-romania-10.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin In Romania #10</image:title><image:caption>Taking part in her oldest sister's wedding -- along with all of her other siblings</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlin-in-romania-18.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin In Romania #18</image:title><image:caption>More surgery - with Daddy to help her every step of the way</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/caelyn-robyn-carlin-colin-madlin-stephen.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/carlin-in-romania-17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin In Romania #17</image:title><image:caption>Home where a mommy can carry her through many difficult surgeries</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2021-04-29T12:17:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2013/11/19/just-a-pair-of-shoes/</loc><lastmod>2021-02-18T01:15:41+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2021/01/25/who-was-sir-godfrey-graybeard/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/saxon-and-godfrey-2017.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Saxon and Godfrey 2017</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/meeting-godfrey-1-24-17.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Meeting Godfrey 1-24-17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/godfreys-first-bath-1-26-17.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Godfrey's First Bath 1-26-17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/godfrey-all-clean-1-26-18.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Godfrey All Clean 1-26-18</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/sir-godfrey-gettin-his-christmas-on-12-10-17.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Sir Godfrey Gettin' His Christmas On 12-10-17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/sil-and-godfrey-groomer-jan.-22-2019.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Sil and Godfrey Groomer Jan. 22 2019</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/godfreys-first-christmas-with-us-11-29-17.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Godfrey's First Christmas With Us 11-29-17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/godfrey-with-shannen-12-24-20.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Godfrey With Shannen 12-24-20</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/godfrey-walking-kathryn-10-21-17.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Godfrey Walking Kathryn 10-21-17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/godfrey-tired-christmas-12-2-20.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Godfrey Tired - Christmas 12-2-20</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2021-01-30T15:59:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2020/10/28/goodbye-my-saxon-love/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/kids-with-saxon-4-09.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kids With Saxon 4-09</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/three-girls-and-two-dogs-7-28-20-cropped.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Three Girls and Two Dogs  7/28/20- Cropped</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/saxon-and-jhannel-7-2018.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Saxon and Jhannel 7/2018</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/august-2014.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>August 2014</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/august-2014-1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>August 2014</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/walk-in-the-rain-hocking-hills-11-2019-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walk in the Rain Hocking Hills 11/2019 #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/walk-in-the-rain-hocking-hills-11-2019-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walk in the Rain Hocking Hills 11/2019 #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/saxons-11th-matthias-and-saxon-9-12-2-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Saxon's 11th Matthias and Saxon 9-12 #2 - #6</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/saxons-11th-jaden-and-saxon-3-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Saxon's 11th Jaden and Saxon #3 - #5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/saxons-11th-gabriela-so-sick-and-saxon-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Saxon's 11th Gabriela - so sick - and Saxon - 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home</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/tsc-kids-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>TSC Kids #1</image:title><image:caption>A few of the hundreds who have come home</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/kids-looking-at-bay.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kids Looking At Bay</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/memorial-service-23.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Memorial Service #23</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/at-home-family-barn-for-mailing2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At Home Family - Barn - for mailing</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/at-home-family-barn-cropped.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At Home Family - Barn - cropped</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/at-home-family-barn-for-mailing1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>At Home Family - Barn - for mailing</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/isabelles-5th-bday-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Isabelle's 5th B'day #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/hallies-5th-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Hallie's 5th #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/mikaelas-5th-birthday-outing-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mikaela's 5th Birthday Outing #3</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2020-10-18T12:59:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/05/09/traversing-the-unknown/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/seizures-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Seizures #4</image:title><image:caption>Continued seizures</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/seizures-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Seizures #3</image:title><image:caption>And more seizures</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/seizures-21.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Seizures #2</image:title><image:caption>More seizures</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/seizures-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Seizures #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kathryn-48.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn #48</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kathryn-46.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn #46</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kathryn-45.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn #45</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kathryn-42.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn #42</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kathryn-41.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn #41</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/kathryn-40.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn #40</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-08-07T02:50:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/07/31/though-the-winds-blow/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #11</image:title><image:caption>Our three "babies" posing for a cute shot on Ethel's lift</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-10.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #10</image:title><image:caption>Owen's turn to use the lift</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-9.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #9</image:title><image:caption>Kathryn LOVES riding in her wheelchair</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-8.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #8</image:title><image:caption>A wheelchair lift!! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #7</image:title><image:caption>Hard for our blind teen to fully grasp all that's going on and how this thing works, so we gave him a ride, too. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #6</image:title><image:caption>So much excitement on this special day!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #5</image:title><image:caption>Praising God for these indescribable blessings</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/lucy-and-ethel-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lucy and Ethel #2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2019-08-01T13:42:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/08/20/the-back-look-into-my-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/braedan-before.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Braedan - before</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/caelyn-14th-orphanage-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Caelyn 14th Orphanage #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/owen-alone.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Owen Alone</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/kathryn-empty-little-girl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn - Empty Little Girl</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/carlin-in-romania-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carlin In Romania #3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/madlin-early-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin Early #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/robyn-orphan.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Robyn Orphan</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/meghan-about-3-orphanage.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan about 3 orphanage</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/kathryns-surgery-first-shower.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's Surgery - First Shower</image:title><image:caption>Surrounded by sisters for her very complicated shower time</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/kathryns-surgery-wound-cleaining-8-18-17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's Surgery Wound Cleaining 8-18-17</image:title><image:caption>Wound cleanings are incredibly painful for our girl</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2019-05-05T01:53:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/11/14/nothing-has-changed-and-you-know-%e2%80%a8-im-okay-with-that/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/sunrise.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sunrise</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/lilyans-stocking-arrives.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan's Stocking Arrives</image:title><image:caption>Lillian's Christmas stocking - ordered last year in faith, believing that she would come home to us in time for Christmas this year</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-16T15:27:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/11/14/this-just-really-really-hurts/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/new-glasses-here-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>New Glasses Here #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/lilyan-and-saxon.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan and Saxon</image:title><image:caption>Lilyan and her pal, Saxon  - just hanging together</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/jaden-spine-surgery-one-week-later-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jaden Spine Surgery One Week Later #1</image:title><image:caption>Bandages removed this morning</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2019-04-16T15:22:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/about/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/with-all-kids-12-8-18-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>With All Kids 12-8-18 #1</image:title><image:caption>The two of us with all 23 kids</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/family-portrait-9-13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Family Portrait 9-13</image:title><image:caption>Our seventeen still-at-home children</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2019-02-09T00:32:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/01/27/when-is-enough/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/china-shirts.jpg</image:loc><image:title>China Shirts</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/bolivia-orphanage1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bolivia-orphanage</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/5-a-m-moon.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5 A.M. Moon</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/bolivia-orphanage.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bolivia-orphanage</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-11-28T13:24:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2018/09/21/whose-house-of-cards-is-this-anyway/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/aug-bday-outing-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Aug B'day Outing #4</image:title><image:caption>Glow Golf - so fun! </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/aug-bday-outing-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Aug B'day Outing #3</image:title><image:caption>Gabriela's turn</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/aug-bday-outing-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Aug B'day Outing #2</image:title><image:caption>Two of our twelve grands</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/aug-bday-outing-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Aug B'day Outing #1</image:title><image:caption>The girls with Grandad</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-10-04T12:31:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2018/05/14/our-wrinkles-tell-our-stories/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/kathryns-14th-and-mothers-day-2018-6-super-cropped.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's 14th and Mother's Day 2018 - #6 - Super Cropped</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/kathryns-14th-and-mothers-day-2018-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's 14th and Mother's Day 2018 - #5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/kathryns-14th-and-mothers-day-2018-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's 14th and Mother's Day 2018 - #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/kathryns-14th-and-mothers-day-2018-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's 14th and Mother's Day 2018 - #3</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-05-14T13:28:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/01/19/and-then-there-were-presents-but-what-if-there-hadnt-been/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tree-with-presents-12-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tree With Presents 12-16</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/sibling-gift-wrapping.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sibling Gift Wrapping</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/grill-being-assembled.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Grill Being Assembled</image:title><image:caption>New grill being assembled in our family room</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/gifts-from-anonymous-person-12-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gifts from Anonymous Person 12-16</image:title><image:caption>Casacading gifts from an anonymous "Santa"</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/christmas-morning.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Christmas Morning</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/christmas-morning-cropped.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Christmas Morning-cropped</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/choosing-blankets2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Choosing Blankets2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/choosing-blankets1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Choosing blankets1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/chatting-with-santa3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chatting with Santa3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/chatting-with-santa3-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Chatting with Santa3</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-05-07T22:22:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2015/02/22/there-once-was-a-girl/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlin-and-kathryn-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin and Kathryn #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlin-and-kathryn-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin and Kathryn #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlin-tea-parlor.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin Tea Parlor</image:title><image:caption>A special day at a friend's tea parlor</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlins-photography-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlins-photography-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlins-photography-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlin-early-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin Early #11</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlin-early-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin Early #6</image:title><image:caption>One of my favorite portraits of Madlin when the healing was in its very early stages</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/adopting-madlin-2003.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Adopting Madlin 2003</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/madlins-16th-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Madlin's 16th #1</image:title><image:caption>Madlin's 16th Birthday</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-11-22T16:10:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/01/04/some-rain-must-fall/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/some-rain-must-fall.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Some Rain Must Fall</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-08-02T10:47:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/06/11/not-always-a-fairytale-and-sometimes-better-than/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/kathys-52nd-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathy's 52nd #4</image:title><image:caption>My 52nd birthday with kids and grandkids</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/family-photo-fall-1990.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Family photo  - Fall 1990</image:title><image:caption>Rosenow family - fall 1990</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/rosenow-family-portrait-sm-8-08.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rosenow Family Portrait-sm 8-08</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/raiza-037.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza-037</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/raiza-023.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza-023</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/raiza-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza-001</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/new-family-shot-9-02.jpg</image:loc><image:title>New family shot - 9-02</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/new-family-pic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>New Family Pic</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/familyportrait1-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FamilyPortrait1-05</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/familyportrait-proof-8-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FamilyPortrait-proof-8-05</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-06-12T15:05:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2013/11/18/here-i-am/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/kathy-profile-pics-for-blogs-etc.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathy - Profile Pics for Blogs, Etc</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T18:51:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2013/11/30/finding-the-tempo/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/symphony-concert-11-13-10-e1385821461590.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Symphony Concert 11-13 #10</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/symphony-concert-11-13-12-e1385821406463.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Symphony Concert 11-13 #12</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/kathryn-empty-little-girl-e1385821270229.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn - Empty Little Girl</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/symphony-concert-11-13-13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Symphony Concert 11-13 #13</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T17:36:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2013/12/21/do-you-believe-in-happy-endings/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/wrapping-finished.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wrapping Finished</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T17:24:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/02/27/about-that-half-empty-glass/</loc><lastmod>2017-04-05T17:17:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/04/24/horribly-broken-places/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/horribly-broken-places-photo-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Horribly Broken Places Photo #6</image:title><image:caption>Celebrating his most recent birthday, trying valiantly to overcome the many scars that plague his heart and mind</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/horribly-broken-places-photo-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Horribly Broken Places Photo #5</image:title><image:caption>Finally home, and meeting his new siblings at the airport.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/horribly-broken-places-photo-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Horribly Broken Places Photo #4</image:title><image:caption>Laughing with his new Mommy at the zoo in his birth country</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/horribly-broken-places-photo-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Horribly Broken Places Photo #3</image:title><image:caption>His first night with us - sleeping soundly in clean dry pajamas and covers, snuggling his new doggie and blankie</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/horribly-broken-places-photo-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Horribly Broken Places Photo #2</image:title><image:caption>Finalizing the adoption - a  new beginning for our boy</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T17:07:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/08/08/ripples/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/third-day-guangzhou-9.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Third Day - Guangzhou #9</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/dinner-with-the-nelsons-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dinner with the Nelsons #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/dinner-with-the-nelsons-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Dinner with the Nelsons #1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:48:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/09/01/swallowed-up-in-sweet-surrender/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/third-day-with-lilyan-17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Third Day with Lilyan #17</image:title><image:caption>A mommy and a daddy all her own!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/swimming-day-8-18-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Swimming Day 8-18 #1</image:title><image:caption>Just hanging together</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/monkey-jam-sibs.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Monkey Jam Sibs</image:title><image:caption>Monkey pajamas just like her brother, Jaden</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/lilyans-new-beanbag-8-14-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan's New Beanbag 8-14 #2</image:title><image:caption>Lilyan and Saxon became close friends almost immediately</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/lilyans-5th-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan's 5th #6</image:title><image:caption>Lilyan's first birthday with a family</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/lilyan-first-ponytails-8-14-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan - First Ponytails  8-14 #3</image:title><image:caption>Ponytails to match her sister, Roslyn</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/lilyan-dentist-and-rus-2-8-27.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan - Dentist and RUS #2 8-27</image:title><image:caption>This girl loves pink!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/fourth-day-home-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fourth Day Home #1</image:title><image:caption>Swimming together </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/first-night-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>First Night #3</image:title><image:caption>Lilyan's first night with her mommy and daddy - and her new teddy bear</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/coming-home-day-2-10.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Coming Home Day 2 #10</image:title><image:caption>So great to play together every day</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:46:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/09/21/show-and-tell-family/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1248.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1248</image:title><image:caption>Our growing pile of new shoes at Shoe Carnival</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_4107.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4107</image:title><image:caption>Lilyan's spinal deformity affects every aspect of her life</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/swimming-day-8-18-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Swimming Day 8-18 #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/pt-session-may-we-help-9.jpg</image:loc><image:title>PT Session - May We Help #9</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/nathans-new-leg-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Nathan's New Leg #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/nathans-new-leg-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Nathan's New Leg #1</image:title><image:caption>New prosthetic leg, designed by Nathan and his prosthetist - Shredder from TMNT</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/lilyan-dentist-and-rus-2-8-271.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan - Dentist and RUS #2 8-27</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/kathryn.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn</image:title><image:caption>Beautiful Kathryn</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_3695.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3695</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1860.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1860</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:24:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/10/11/god-if-youre-there/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-all-grown-up.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza -- All Grown Up</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-140.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza-140</image:title><image:caption>A family outing not long before she left us for the last time</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-020.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza-020</image:title><image:caption>Back with us again as an older girl</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-27.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza #27</image:title><image:caption>Even as our family continued to grow through adoption, Raiza came and went.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza #11</image:title><image:caption>Part of our family forever - even if only in our hearts</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza #6</image:title><image:caption>Scott, teaching her to ride a bike</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/raiza-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Raiza #1</image:title><image:caption>Raiza when she first came to us</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/remembering-laurens-birthday-9.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Remembering Lauren's Birthday #9</image:title><image:caption>The Wall of Babies where our little Lauren's body is buried</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/coffin-in-vault.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Coffin in Vault</image:title><image:caption>Her coffin was placed in this crypt, and then the crypt was sealed closed</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/coffin-in-car.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Coffin in Car</image:title><image:caption>Lauren's tiny coffin arriving at the cemetery</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:22:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/11/25/what-kind-of-man-would-do-something-like-this/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/us-babies.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Us Babies</image:title><image:caption>The two of us as babies. Only God knew, then, that He would someday bring us together and create something amazing. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/wrestling-match-12-10-7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wrestling Match 12-10 #7</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/first-time-standing-sm.jpg</image:loc><image:title>First Time Standing - sm</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/morning-201.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/josiah-grandaddy1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Josiah-Grandaddy1</image:title><image:caption>Becoming Grandad!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/gabriela-helping-grandad-hang-blinds.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gabriela Helping Grandad Hang Blinds</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/sharonwoods-8-12-17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SharonWoods 8-12 #17</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/scotttalking1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ScottTalking</image:title><image:caption>Speaking on behalf of the fatherless</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/rock-climbing-11-11-day-2-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rock Climbing 11-11 Day 2 #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/firsttimestanding-11-19-08.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FirstTimeStanding-11-19-08</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:15:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2015/03/21/you-not-the-boss-i-the-boss/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/tea-parlor-with-meghan-3-12-7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tea Parlor with Meghan 3-12 #7</image:title><image:caption>Mother-daughter visit to a local tea parlor</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghans-19th-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan's 19th #1</image:title><image:caption>Beautiful, 19-year-old Meghan today</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghans-18th-dinner-out-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan's 18th Dinner Out #1</image:title><image:caption>Celebrating her 18th birthday at a special dinner with the two of us</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/sisters-madlin-and-meghan.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sisters Madlin and Meghan</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghans-17th-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan's 17th #4</image:title><image:caption>Her new baby brother and sister -- Jaden and Roslyn</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghan-stephen-colin-singing-at-an-orphan-awareness-event.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan, Stephen, &amp; Colin Singing at an Orphan Awareness Event</image:title><image:caption>Singing with brothers, Stephen and Colin, for an Orphan Sunday service </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghan-profile-pic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan Profile Pic</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/mikaela-w-meghan-610.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mikaela w-Meghan 6:10?</image:title><image:caption>At a Ukrainian orphanage, holding the little one who would become her new niece, Mikaela</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghan_final1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>meghan_final1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/meghans-picture-051906.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meghan's Picture 051906</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:10:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2015/11/07/im-a-junk-drawer-but-they-call-me-mommy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/meeting-lilyan-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Meeting Lilyan #6</image:title><image:caption>The day that I officially became Mommy to Lilyan</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/family-photo-for-framing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Family Photo - For Framing</image:title><image:caption>Family photo showing the nineteen still living at home who call me Mommy</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/roslyn-swinging.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Roslyn Swinging</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/roslyn-meeting-keller.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Roslyn Meeting Keller</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/nolans-7th-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Nolan's 7th #5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/kathryns-11th-and-mothers-day-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's 11th and Mother's Day #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/jaden-swinging.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jaden Swinging</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/junk-drawer.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Junk Drawer</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:06:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2016/01/19/and-sometimes-the-little-things-are-big-things/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/coffee-shop-of-comfort.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Coffee Shop of Comfort</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/a-cup-of-calm-and-promise.jpg</image:loc><image:title>A Cup of Calm and Promise</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/family-photo-shoot-9-10-15-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Family Photo Shoot 9-10-15 #16</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T14:00:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2016/01/22/a-little-update/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/flowers-from-bette-brinkerhoff.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Flowers from Bette Brinkerhoff</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T13:56:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2016/02/03/it-doesnt-really-matter-now/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/suzy-and-puppies-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Suzy and Puppies #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/suzy-and-puppies-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Suzy and Puppies #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/suzy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Suzy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/kristen-and-me-at-suzy-wheats-house-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kristen and Me at Suzy Wheat's House</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T13:53:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/01/13/a-wasted-day-not-wasted/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/jaden-rod-lengthening-1-9-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jaden - Rod Lengthening 1-9-16</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-8.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #8</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #7</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #6</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-4-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tomato-soup-day-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tomato Soup Day #1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-05T13:49:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2017/03/25/willing-to-be-fragrant-or-not/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/coopers-hawk-late-bday-2016-celebrations-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cooper's Hawk - Late B'day 2016 Celebrations #6</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/coopers-hawk-late-bday-2016-celebrations-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cooper's Hawk - Late B'day 2016 Celebrations #5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/coopers-hawk-late-bday-2016-celebrations-4-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cooper's Hawk - Late B'day 2016 Celebrations #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/coopers-hawk-late-bday-2016-celebrations-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cooper's Hawk - Late B'day 2016 Celebrations #3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/coopers-hawk-late-bday-2016-celebrations-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cooper's Hawk - Late B'day 2016 Celebrations #1</image:title><image:caption>Happy 2016 Birthdays to us! </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-08-13T13:59:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2013/12/07/dancing-with-my-creator/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/teddy-bear-lilyan.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Teddy Bear - Lilyan</image:title><image:caption>Teddy bear waiting for the daughter who's never coming home now</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/us-dancing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Us Dancing</image:title><image:caption>Dancing with Scott at our son's wedding</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/lilyan.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lilyan</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-01-13T18:54:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2016/02/09/sometimes-you-have-to-do-the-hard-things/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/kathryns-iud-insertion-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's IUD Insertion #4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/kathryns-iud-insertion-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's IUD Insertion #3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/kathryns-iud-insertion-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's IUD Insertion #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/kathryns-iud-insertion-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn's IUD Insertion #1</image:title><image:caption>Beautiful early-morning drive to Children's</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-02-15T22:17:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2013/12/29/learningtobeguided/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/colin-in-tree1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Colin In Tree</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-18T21:16:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/12/11/mankind-is-our-business-homelessness-and-divine-encounters/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/dan-sparrow-and-kathryn.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kathryn with Our Friends</image:title><image:caption>Our friends. I wish we could find them again.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-19T11:18:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/2014/04/16/cracks-in-the-sidewalk/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/walking-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walking #3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/walking-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walking #2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/walking-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walking #1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/walking-1-alternate.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Walking #1 Alternate</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://owningmynothingness.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/math-lesson-colin-11-11-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Math Lesson Colin 11-11 #3</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-17T21:28:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://owningmynothingness.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2025-11-13T15:10:28+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
